I do not think it is a coincidence that many men deem one of their top love languages as touch.
I do not think it is a coincidence that many men deem one of their top love languages as touch -- if not their top one. I have always found the statement funny -- only because it was repeatedly repeated among the men I have connected with -- but reading bell hooks, has altered my way of understanding why that may be the case. I had originally thought it was because most men are naturally sexual beings. Let us just be honest. It sometimes seems like a switch they cannot turn off, which can be heavily frustrating at times, but I may have even accepted it myself as the norm, making an excuse, almost, for them. Not anymore. No more excuses. I have a wider view of the root. bell hooks mentions neglect that men may have gone through at a young age, such as their mom and dad not only telling them that they needed to "get over a boo-boo", but weaning them off of the constant sentimental touch that they may have had as a newborn. There are phrases such as "you are the man of
