Give Me Passion & The Pain
Saturday, July 16, 2016
Just like life
itself, love is a fight. It should be easy, but not in the initial sense that
may come to mind. The easy part comes within loving the person; it is not
forced, but the love itself is an undeniable force. The fight is what sustains
that love between the parties involved.
Anything worth having is not easy to obtain--I am certain that is a quote that has been repeated many times, and it is true. In a sense, I view a relationship like taking on a career; one will work hard to reach a certain level in his/her career, a relationship needs that same energy. I have always compared a relationship to an extra job to tend to. You can no longer think selfishly if you want the relationship--a healthy one--to survive; you have to make decisions thinking of the other. You have to "keep them happy." It takes work on both parts.
The challenges that come can be the most beautiful or most destructive.
I may huff and puff, initially, when a snag hits in a relationship, but it is that love that makes me take on the challenge at the end of the day and fight for my partner; I believe in finding middle grounds or solutions to the problems presented. If a middle ground/solution can be met, the best reward is becoming stronger and growing more with your partner. However, it is also in the midst of problems that unity can be completely shattered and all built can completely tumble down to the ground.
I embrace the passion that stems from fighting for what you love as well as the chance of pain to rekindle. You cannot accept all the good things, turning away from the bad. I even believe in embracing times when flames cannot be rekindled in relationships.
If adversity divides hearts--no matter what side--the love being true might be up for question. Reevaluation might be in dire need before proceeding.
No one deserves doubtful love; you deserve undeniable.
Anything worth having is not easy to obtain--I am certain that is a quote that has been repeated many times, and it is true. In a sense, I view a relationship like taking on a career; one will work hard to reach a certain level in his/her career, a relationship needs that same energy. I have always compared a relationship to an extra job to tend to. You can no longer think selfishly if you want the relationship--a healthy one--to survive; you have to make decisions thinking of the other. You have to "keep them happy." It takes work on both parts.
The challenges that come can be the most beautiful or most destructive.
I may huff and puff, initially, when a snag hits in a relationship, but it is that love that makes me take on the challenge at the end of the day and fight for my partner; I believe in finding middle grounds or solutions to the problems presented. If a middle ground/solution can be met, the best reward is becoming stronger and growing more with your partner. However, it is also in the midst of problems that unity can be completely shattered and all built can completely tumble down to the ground.
I embrace the passion that stems from fighting for what you love as well as the chance of pain to rekindle. You cannot accept all the good things, turning away from the bad. I even believe in embracing times when flames cannot be rekindled in relationships.
If adversity divides hearts--no matter what side--the love being true might be up for question. Reevaluation might be in dire need before proceeding.
No one deserves doubtful love; you deserve undeniable.
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